tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-42344233439376593012024-02-20T23:27:49.655-08:00Four Daughters, One Wife and MeMolineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.comBlogger121125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-82914720330874076272011-11-02T10:21:00.000-07:002011-11-02T10:21:00.185-07:00Dragons Den Rich ListI have been enjoying the latest series of The Dragons Den. I say enjoying<br />
even though I spend most of my time shouting at the TV in frustration. It’s<br />
not the often inept presentation of the inventors and entrepreneurs, who<br />
are trying to prise money out of the dragons that leads me to despair.<br />
<br />
It is the way that the multi-millionaire stars seem to enjoy ridiculing<br />
the poor fools who enter their lair. A young couple, who had invented what<br />
seemed to be a quality product, have just been called naïve by the tall<br />
one. Of course they are! They are nothing but kids and have only been in<br />
business for a few months. <br />
<br />
Its as if they want people to be the finished article when they arrive<br />
into the den. But surely they wouldn’t need to ask for help if they knew<br />
all the answers.<br />
<br />
Apart from Theo mentioning his ‘children’s inheritance’ time and again it<br />
is the lack of comprehension they show regarding they are giving away that<br />
riles me up.<br />
<br />
Duncan Banatyne, for example, is estimated to be worth £320m. During this<br />
latest episode he offered £200k to a couple of inventors. Your initial<br />
reaction might be one of amazement at such an investment.<br />
<br />
This is such a small percentage of his overall wealth. If you or I had a<br />
bank balance of £1000 it would be the equivalent of giving away 63p. That<br />
would make the above investment mere loose change to a wealthy businessman.<br />
<br />
I am not commenting on the integrity of Duncan and his fellow Dragons but<br />
context always gives you the right perspective. I am sure they give many<br />
thousands of pounds to charity every year and that such giving makes a<br />
definable difference to needy causes, but let’s keep it in perspective.<br />
<br />
A recent survey indicated that the lowest earners amongst our population<br />
give a higher percentage of their income to charity. I am quite sure that<br />
most of our people give more than 63p to charity each year.<br />
<br />
Figures vary but most commentators reckon that the average annual giving<br />
by British people is 0.8% of their yearly wage. I know many people who give<br />
a lot more than this.<br />
<br />
It has been moving to see the response of the British people to the<br />
Pakistan flood victims. Whilst never enough a substantial amount has been<br />
raised and most of seemingly by ordinary folk.<br />
<br />
So whilst the Dragons enjoy publicity seeking in their den as they revel<br />
in handing out spare cash to young hopefuls, the rest of us make a real<br />
difference by pooling our resources to help those who don’t have the luxury<br />
of owning any loose change.Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-20948564908328045102011-10-26T01:01:00.000-07:002011-10-26T01:01:00.576-07:00Thread The NeedleFollowing a recent cold snap Mrs M and I decided to bring out our winter<br />
coats from hibernation. There is something both concerning and comforting<br />
about such an event; concerning because I become all too aware of another<br />
passing year. Comforting because I am reminded how much I love to wear my<br />
winter coat.<br />
<br />
As I pulled from its pockets old train tickets and a selection of receipts<br />
I was reminded of some of the things we enjoyed during last winter. A trip<br />
to York to visit our youngest daughter. A day out with our parents to<br />
sample real ale and country fare in a Yorkshire dale’s village.<br />
<br />
I tried the coat on to make sure that my summer intake of beer and pork<br />
pies hadn’t enlarged my frame too much. With a gasp of success I exclaimed<br />
that it still fitted me ‘like a glove’. But only just!<br />
<br />
As I displayed my victory over the calories to Mrs M she reminded me that<br />
there was a time when growing out of our clothes was seen as a normal part<br />
of life.<br />
<br />
We reminisced about the last few days of school summer holidays when our<br />
parents would prepare for our return by buying new uniforms. My mother, as<br />
with most other parents back then, would always buy my jacket a couple of<br />
sizes too big.<br />
<br />
Then, as I complained about it not fitting she would announce, as if<br />
offering a timeless truth, ‘you will grow into it’.<br />
<br />
And so I would turn up for that first day back at high school to meet all<br />
my friends and compare how much of our hands were showing from beneath our<br />
coat sleeves.<br />
<br />
That was then, and this is now. I don’t need a new coat every year. I can<br />
make my old faithful jacket work a treat. As I expressed this last<br />
sentiment to my bride a button popped off as if to puncture my elation.<br />
<br />
Not to be defeated I found the family sowing box and began the repair<br />
process.<br />
<br />
It is some time since I last tried to thread a needle and I don’t recall<br />
having any difficult with the process. In fact I always prided myself on<br />
being able to offer my mother support for such things.<br />
<br />
Now, however, this seemingly simple exercise has turned into a major test<br />
of my grown up abilities. No matter how much I squinted I could not get the<br />
needle threaded.<br />
<br />
I donned the reading glasses that I only need for ‘the smallest of<br />
writing’ and still could not find a way to complete my task.<br />
<br />
Not to be beaten I tried to find a bigger needle hoping that the eye would<br />
be larger and give me a better chance to thread the cotton.<br />
<br />
I am nothing if I am not a tryer and I swear that I missed several TV<br />
programmes before I followed my mother’s example and asked for help from my<br />
daughter.<br />
<br />
Almost without taking her attention from the TV she threaded the needle<br />
and handed it back. In an instant I realised what my mother felt like when<br />
she had to rely on me for such tasks.<br />
<br />
Once the job was done I put the coat to show the result of my work. As I<br />
inhaled in order to fasten the buttons Mrs M offered me the following<br />
comforting words ‘don’t worry you can slim into it’Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-30373292348939217932011-10-19T10:12:00.000-07:002011-10-19T10:12:00.646-07:00Christmas Too EarlyApparently a shopper with aspirations of being a social commentator has<br />
again taken a stand against retailers stocking Christmas product too early.<br />
<br />
The individual concerned has taken the bold step of re-labelling the<br />
festive signs found in a supermarket with other home made slogans<br />
including; ‘Not Yet Christmas’ and ‘Come Back In December’.<br />
<br />
I am not sure what drove them to this end but the fact that they came<br />
prepared suggest they had spent some time brewing their anger.<br />
<br />
As funny as I find this action I am not advocating that we should all take<br />
to the isles in such an act of defiance even though I can understand the<br />
sentiment behind this latest protest.<br />
<br />
I wonder if the store in question has any CCTV footage of the perpetrator<br />
and whether they intend taking further action. <br />
<br />
I can’t help thinking that life is meant to be seasonal and that having a<br />
gap between summer and winter is good for us. They used to call this gap<br />
autumn but now the edges of our historic divisions have been smudged.<br />
<br />
All of this begs the question ‘when should the Christmas festivities<br />
start?’ <br />
<br />
If we follow the song then we should start on the 24th December and<br />
celebrate the twelve days of Christmas. If we enjoy the chocolate offered<br />
by modern advent calendars then we would have to start at the very<br />
beginning of the month.<br />
<br />
Retailers, however, follow neither of these models and start well before<br />
the rest of us have mourned the loss of summer. They then begin to rip<br />
through the tinsel on Boxing Day to entice us in with massive sales.<br />
<br />
Every family will have their own tradition and ours is no exception. The<br />
tree is brought out on December the first and we begin our countdown to one<br />
of our favourite holidays.<br />
<br />
We often don’t even begin our shopping until this point. This will seem<br />
odd to some. We have friends who begin buying their presents in the post<br />
Christmas sales in preparation for the following year.<br />
<br />
Whilst I admire their organisational skills in doing so, and the fact that<br />
they save a good deal of money, I feel as if this is step too far for my<br />
liking.<br />
<br />
It also seems unfair to Santa (just in case we have younger readers) who<br />
then has to store them for a full twelve months. This is a logistical<br />
nightmare and must present health and safety issues in the North Pole.<br />
<br />
You could imagine Father Christmas contacting his union in order to<br />
complain about the extra workload. I wonder what type of action he might<br />
take in order to place the celebrations firmly back where they have<br />
traditionally been.<br />
He could work to rule and only deliver to houses that still have chimneys.<br />
He could limit his involvement to families that can be bothered to provide<br />
mince pies and a tot of whiskey as he makes his travels.<br />
<br />
Or he could visit the Bradford area in September and re-label the<br />
Christmas decorations in a supermarket. I cant wait to see the CCTV<br />
footage.Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-53788600748009817052011-10-12T10:07:00.000-07:002011-10-12T10:07:00.418-07:00Student Waste BinbLast week my wife and I took one of our regular trips to York with the<br />
intention of visiting our youngest daughter, who is attending university in<br />
that fine city.<br />
<br />
I say that she is attending this honoured place of learning without any<br />
real evidence of this being true.<br />
<br />
Back in the days of primary school we parents were almost completely<br />
connected to the education process; letters from teachers, parent’s<br />
evenings, assemblies all added to this connection.<br />
<br />
By the time your children start to become embarrassed by your every move<br />
they are protected by the high school years.<br />
<br />
Then, before you can get used to sight of their first piercings, your<br />
offspring are heading towards adulthood.<br />
<br />
If it weren’t for the regular depletions from your bank balance and the<br />
occasional Facebook messages you wouldn’t really know that university<br />
exists.<br />
<br />
On this recent trip our stated agenda was to visit our daughter and have a<br />
spot of lunch. Not once was I told that we would spend a good amount of our<br />
time cleaning her room and repairing various broken items.<br />
<br />
Not that I resent this; I tend to be grateful for any contact with our<br />
daughters even if I am valued by my usefulness.<br />
<br />
What I mind is our continual pretence that we are making the forty-mile<br />
journey merely for lunch. <br />
<br />
As we began to wade through several months’ worth of student debris I<br />
couldn’t help notice that although the floor was completely covered,<br />
neither the waste bin nor the wash basket contained any items.<br />
<br />
I commented that these containers resembled by bank account but mum and<br />
daughter we enjoying putting clothes in the wardrobe. I have occasionally<br />
tried this myself but I can’t say that I understand the thrill.<br />
<br />
I think my enjoyment has been somewhat quashed by the constant comments<br />
offered by my bride. It seems that you cannot count it as a successful<br />
exercise if all the hangers are not placed on the rail facing the same way.<br />
I tried to ask why this was important but my wife answered in her customary<br />
fashion ‘If you don’t know then I cant explain it’.<br />
<br />
I have a suspicion that it might be woman code for ‘I don’t really know<br />
but I wont admit it’.<br />
<br />
Either way, my youngest daughter and my bride of nearly thirty years, both<br />
seemed to understand the rules of engagement without need for explanation.<br />
<br />
Once the room was good enough to be photographed, and the said pic was<br />
uploaded to Facebook, we headed off for lunch.<br />
<br />
Before long my wife and I were reminiscing about our own student days and<br />
Mrs Molineaux’s youngest commented about the similarities with her<br />
experiences.<br />
<br />
Our parents would often ask us about our studies and we would offer only<br />
monosyllabic replies; much as our daughters have done to us.<br />
<br />
‘Did you keep your rooms tidy’ our precious offspring enquired. We laughed<br />
and then I pointed out that in comparison she was living in relative<br />
luxury.<br />
<br />
My waste bin was a plastic shopping bag and I used a pillowcase to hold my<br />
washing. I confess that I did occasionally tidy up if things became too<br />
untidy.<br />
<br />
‘You have more motivation to clean your room’ Mrs M informed our daughter<br />
‘So that the Facebook photograph looks good’.Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-48702819173147692502011-10-05T10:15:00.000-07:002011-10-05T10:15:00.649-07:00The Genetic FactorIs anyone else a bit fed up of TV presenters telling us that the future of<br />
their contestants depends on us? Whether it is singing wannabees or<br />
celebrity dancers it seems that they just cannot manage without us.<br />
<br />
This appears somewhat ironic given the fact that they present us with a<br />
panel of experts all vying to give us their opinions.<br />
<br />
‘If you don’t want your favourite to leave then pick up the phone now’ the<br />
presenter informs the audience presuming that a) We have a favourite and b)<br />
that we care enough to spend our money in order to secure their future.<br />
<br />
Perhaps if they had a ‘none of the above’ option I might be more tempted<br />
to take up the responsibility that they so freely offer me.<br />
<br />
I expressed this thought to Mrs M and she suggested that I was looking at<br />
the whole thing a little too negatively. She even intimated that I might<br />
feel more at home watching Grumpy Old Men.<br />
<br />
Perhaps she has a point but I can’t help feeling that these programmes<br />
bring out the worst in me.<br />
<br />
I wonder how long it will be before newscasters start asking us to vote on<br />
which headlines they cover. Or when weather reporters start running a<br />
phone-in competition so that we can decide the kind of weather we should<br />
have.<br />
<br />
This all sits well with the media obsession of getting the public’s<br />
opinion on virtual every subject you can name. They start by asking a few<br />
well-educated professionals to start the debate rolling. Then before you<br />
know it they are on the streets to ask Doris from Bolton what she thinks<br />
about genetic modification.<br />
<br />
Not that people christened Doris, nor indeed the residents of Bolton,<br />
have the right to speak; it’s just that I am not sure whether either label<br />
qualifies you to have a useful viewpoint on multi cellular organisms.<br />
<br />
Perhaps the future of genetic engineering is more important than the X<br />
Factor (although you wouldn’t know that from the viewing figures) but I<br />
don’t really care what Doris thinks about either and I am quite sure that<br />
my thoughts are equally useless in such things.<br />
<br />
I expressed this opinion to Mrs M and she replied ‘You are making the huge<br />
assumption that Doris doesn’t have a PHD in such matters or that she<br />
doesn’t work as a record producer.’<br />
<br />
I detected that she was offering a little too much sarcasm so I explained<br />
to her why she was missing the point but she was too busy listening to<br />
Simon Cowell destroy another young hopefuls dreams.<br />
<br />
If you want my unqualified opinion, if it wasn’t for genetics the X Factor<br />
wouldn’t be nearly as popular as it is.Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-52474258675573804552011-09-28T10:19:00.000-07:002011-09-28T10:19:00.165-07:00Coming UpMrs M and I are committed telly watchers. We always have been but<br />
especially so when our four daughters were younger and funds were limited.<br />
Once the kids were fast asleep in bed we would hope and pray that there<br />
would be something good to watch for the last hour of the evening before we<br />
collapsed in to bed.<br />
<br />
We are not just a family of TV ‘watchers’, we also try to be fully engaged<br />
with the process; commenting on the storylines, arguing about which<br />
contestant is our favourite, and occasionally shouting in the direction of<br />
the screen if we find something to disagree with. This last one is usually<br />
my practice and tends to annoy the other family members but at least I have<br />
stopped throwing things at the TV these days.<br />
<br />
Although we had the luxury of a video player back then most of our tapes<br />
were either cartoons or compilations of home movies. Not like today when we<br />
have so much technology available to aid us in our free time.<br />
<br />
One of our most favourite of the new inventions is the ability to record<br />
most of our favourite programmes using something called series link. <br />
<br />
In addition to the fact that we very rarely miss episodes we are also able<br />
to fast forward past the adverts. This has increasingly brought to our<br />
attention the fact that an hour of TV only contains about forty minutes of<br />
the actually programme.<br />
<br />
If this is not bad enough there is the use of a phrase that I have come to<br />
quite literally detest. It is employed in nearly every show and without any<br />
sense of how it affects the viewer’s experience.<br />
<br />
The phrase is ‘coming up’.<br />
<br />
It is used just before the advert break and seems to suggest that TV<br />
producers have very little confidence in either their product or their<br />
viewers.<br />
<br />
They must assume that we will get distracted during the ad break and<br />
forget what we were watching. So they try to tantalise us with snippets of<br />
what is about to happen.<br />
<br />
Well I would like to announce to these producers that I am not interested<br />
in what is coming up until it arrives; so stop telling me what I am about<br />
to see.<br />
<br />
You might feel my annoyance coming through these words but don’t be too<br />
concerned because my pain has been alleviated by the fact that we can now<br />
fast forward past such nonsense.<br />
<br />
Added to this ability to eliminate this TV chaff is the fact that I can<br />
increase my engagement with programme by shouting at the screen ‘we are not<br />
interested in what is coming up!’, before pressing the fast forward button<br />
on the remote control.Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-88475206986350754532011-09-21T10:10:00.000-07:002011-09-21T10:10:00.326-07:00Dedicated Follower of FashionI have just put my holiday hat away to hibernate for the winter. Using all<br />
the skills of a Blue Peter presenter I stored it in a box at the back of my<br />
wardrobe making sure that there was enough air circulation to ensure it<br />
emerges undamaged next year ready for the baking heat of a British summer. <br />
<br />
Whilst completing this important process I found a couple of items that<br />
have managed to avoid Mrs M's regular clothes cull. She does one of these<br />
quite regularly, spurred on by some charity or other that has kindly<br />
dropped a bin liner through our door. <br />
<br />
I often wonder whether it is our need to follow fashion rather than our<br />
support for the concerned charity that drives such action.<br />
<br />
Here, however, I had found some clothes that had avoided the cull. <br />
<br />
Firstly there were my old jogging bottoms circa 1988. Made of shiny<br />
material with two long stripes running up each leg, they included the<br />
helpful feature of a small zip near each ankle so that you could take them<br />
off without removing your footwear.<br />
<br />
I have worn them very occasionally during the intervening years but I have<br />
to confess they don’t offer the same comfort they did when I was in my<br />
twenties.<br />
<br />
I tried them on and posed for my wife, holding in my stomach, and hoping<br />
to look at least a little sportsman like. Mrs M seemed more amused than<br />
impressed.<br />
<br />
‘It would work if you had a moustache and a curly perm’ she offered.<br />
<br />
‘I think there is still a little life in them’ I replied. At this point my<br />
bride’s laughter subsided to be replaced with a slight look of fear at the<br />
thought that I might actually wear them outdoors.<br />
<br />
‘Don’t worry’ I said hoping to offer comfort ‘I will wait until they come<br />
back in fashion’<br />
<br />
I said this in certain knowledge that, apart from the cod piece and the<br />
Bay City Roller tartan trousers, everything else does seem to return to the<br />
forefront again.<br />
<br />
Just as I have managed to afford some small framed, branded reading<br />
glasses, it seems that the old style large specs are making a come back;<br />
think Deirdre Barlow and Richard Whitely.<br />
<br />
We have seen a few celebrities wearing such items recently on TV and<br />
commented how ridiculous they look.<br />
<br />
Most people react like this when, in truth, it is not long before the<br />
irresistible need to conform overtakes them and they start wearing what<br />
they once ridiculed.<br />
<br />
The second item I found during my holiday hat hibernation ritual was a<br />
shirt on which the collar and cuffs are a different colour to the main<br />
body. <br />
<br />
I tried to model this for my wife too but ended up feeling a little<br />
depressed as I tried to fasten the buttons and failed.<br />
<br />
‘If I had managed to fasten them’ I said pushing through my sadness ‘I<br />
think I could have pulled it off’. <br />
<br />
‘If you had managed to fasten them' commented Mrs M 'we would have had to<br />
cut it off with the scissors’ Then she rolled her eyes in a way that has<br />
never gone out of fashion.Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-30317174502811947382011-09-07T10:53:00.000-07:002011-09-07T10:53:00.203-07:00Football CrazyThe football season has well and truly begun and I am feeling a great sense of excitement. This might not seem surprising if you were to know that I was a football fan. Given the disappointment of last year’s World Cup I had thought that I would devote less time to the Nation’s favourite sport.<br />
<br />
Yet, as soon as the first whistle blew on the Community Shield Cup back in August my interest returned in spades.<br />
<br />
Part of the fun is the regular conversation I have with some of my closest friends; most of whom support different teams than me.<br />
<br />
I was speaking with once such friend, who is a Liverpool fan, just a few days ago. After I reminded him that his team play in an orangey-red and therefore must be inferior to United, I asked him where they were in the league at the moment.<br />
<br />
His answer made me laugh because it displayed the full partisan feeling experienced by most fans. ‘They are joint sixth’ he said with a decent sense of pride having seen them sitting just above the relegation zone only a few weeks earlier.<br />
<br />
‘Don’t you mean ninth?’ I enquired seeing through his plan to spin the situation like a good politician. ‘It depends how you look at it’ he replied.<br />
<br />
He confessed that had Everton been in the same position he would have definitely called it ninth place.<br />
<br />
Another of my long time friends is a Newcastle fan with whom I have spent many happy hours talking about every aspect of football over the years. Several months ago I found out that he had sadly past on after battling several of the complications that life often throws at some of the world’s loveliest people.<br />
<br />
When talking about Mark’s favourite team I would often quote to him a phrase from the funeral service ‘we sorrow but not as those without hope’.<br />
<br />
He would usually reply with some humorous comment whilst acknowledging that being a Magpie fan was often a difficult experience. The humour was useful in deflecting from many of the other struggles he faced and I am glad to say that before he died he learned that his beloved team had beaten Arsenal away from home.<br />
<br />
For Mark and me, football became our touch point, so that in the midst of the pain we could find some enjoyment talking about our common passion.<br />
<br />
In years gone by we would often watch a match on TV; me in bold red and him in black and white stripes, to ensure that our rivalry, although friendly, would be apparent.<br />
<br />
He used to regularly remind me that I couldn’t be a true Man United fan because I didn’t have a southern accent. I would respond by asking him whether the till beeped when he walked though the supermarket looking like a bar code.<br />
<br />
In addition to this passion for football Mark also had a belief that there was a future after this life was over. He would tell me that this gave him a lot of strength to deal with his difficulties.<br />
<br />
As I think of him now I remember my oft quoted phrase ‘we sorrow but not as those without hope’ and am hoping it might be helpful for the whole of life and not just for football.Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-79158265287367769122011-09-07T10:04:00.000-07:002011-09-07T10:04:00.261-07:00Whistle Me Up ScottyWhilst in the doctor’s surgery last week I was arrested by a strange noise<br />
that evoked memories of my youth. Another patient was waiting for his turn<br />
to be treated (an odd word for an experience that seems to be far from<br />
anything resembling a treat). <br />
<br />
Rather than spend the time reading tired copies of Readers Digest he<br />
amused himself by whistling. This in itself might not seem an unusual<br />
occurrence. However this musician, for that is what his skill obviously<br />
made him, was purposefully producing a melody. <br />
<br />
Indeed he seemed to be working his way through a selection of Glen Miller<br />
tunes. <br />
<br />
If it were not for the modern surroundings of the newly built health<br />
centre I could have sworn that I had been transported back to my late<br />
sixties childhood. <br />
<br />
The rise of the MP3 player and mobile phone seems to have all but put an<br />
end to the long lost art of whistling. <br />
<br />
When I was a kid every tradesman worth his salt could belt out a<br />
recognisable tune as he climbed ladders, hammered in nails, or painted<br />
window frames. <br />
<br />
Today people have music available in any and every situation and so there<br />
no need to amuse oneself and others making melody through pursed lips <br />
<br />
A couple of younger folk in the surgery looked across at our waiting room<br />
musician as if he was a little odd. <br />
<br />
This seemed rather strange to me if not a little sad. <br />
<br />
Today it is not unusual to see someone walking through a town centre,<br />
plugged into a mobile phone, in full conversation. <br />
<br />
For a split second I am convinced that they must be talking to themselves.<br />
In the days of my youth the only people who did this were those of a more<br />
delicate disposition. <br />
<br />
What a change in a mere four decades. It is now acceptable behaviour to<br />
walk around having disconnected conversations yet if you whistle you look<br />
like a mad man. <br />
<br />
I was walking through Leeds Railway station looking for my connecting<br />
train when a young lady appeared from the steps declaring 'it's the wrong<br />
way and if you don't change you will be late'. <br />
<br />
The fact that she was looking directly at me seemed to indicate that her<br />
comments were aimed at me. Not so! She was engaged in a mobile conversation<br />
with someone from her office. She happened to look at me because my<br />
eighteen stone frame happened to be directly in her path at this very<br />
moment. <br />
<br />
For a split second I prepared to answer her but fortunately realised the<br />
situation in time to spare my blushes.<br />
<br />
Such mobile conversations would have seemed futuristic when I was a lad,<br />
confined to the likes of Star Trek.<br />
<br />
Matter Transmitters, Phasers, Warp Drive, and tiny electronic<br />
communication devices were all the stuff that fed a young boys imagination.<br />
<br />
<br />
Most of these technologies haven't been invented yet but one out four<br />
ain't bad. <br />
<br />
Nobody has yet found a way of separating the component parts of flesh in<br />
order to reconstitute it again; unless you count chicken nuggets.<br />
<br />
Warp speed would be a complete waste of time given the near gridlock we<br />
experience at rush hour. <br />
<br />
The nearest thing we have to Phasers are the police use of tasers; even<br />
then the sight of a long wire shooting out of a gun is hardly space age.<br />
<br />
I should have seen these changes coming, after all you never saw Captain<br />
Kirk whistling on Star Trek.Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-22468682851211282712011-08-31T00:58:00.000-07:002011-08-31T00:58:00.152-07:00I Really Don't Like MondaysNot too long ago the news came out that the BBC had apologised to Sir Bob Geldof.<br />
Why, you may ask! Was it for not giving airtime to the Boomtown Rats<br />
re-release of ‘I Don’t Like Mondays’ in the mid nineties? Or for not<br />
forcing him to visit the hair and makeup department before appearing on<br />
Parkinson a several years ago?<br />
<br />
No! This recent apology was for alleging that a good proportion of money<br />
raised through his various Live Aide projects had not reached the intended<br />
victims of famine. In fact they claimed that some of the funds had been<br />
used to buy weapons.<br />
<br />
The original piece, given by BBC World Service Africa editor Martin Plaut,<br />
was first broadcast back in March and then followed up with a discussion on<br />
Andrew Marr’s Sunday morning programme.<br />
<br />
I am sad to hear the news of these editorial failings for a number of<br />
reasons, not least because the BBC directly benefited from the Boomtown<br />
Rat’s efforts by having hours and hours of live music footage that all but<br />
guaranteed them huge audience figures.<br />
<br />
Who can forget Status Quo’s opening rendition of their hit ‘Rocking All<br />
Over The World’ or Freddie Mercury’s Queen getting the crowds to respond<br />
with ‘We Will Rock You’. Or even Sir Bob passionately shouting ‘Give us yer<br />
money!’<br />
<br />
All these years later perhaps my greatest disquiet is the fact that such<br />
allegations only feed the growing feeling of disconnection felt by the<br />
British public and our long history of generosity.<br />
<br />
I often hear people declare that they didn’t give to a particular cause<br />
because they were unsure whether the funds would reach their intended<br />
target. Giving then becomes secondary exercise and we all too easily find<br />
an excuse for our lack of generosity.<br />
<br />
For sure charities need to act responsibly but scare story headlines like<br />
the one offered by the BBC are hard to argue against for all but the<br />
largest charities meaning that there remains in the public consciousness a<br />
nagging doubt about the validity of any future requests for help.<br />
<br />
The regular phrase trotted out by people wishing to avoid helping those in<br />
greater need is ‘charity begins at home’ and one cant help feel that in the<br />
present credit crunch crisis we are going to hear it a lot more.<br />
<br />
If you take it to it’s logically conclusion it would mean that families<br />
would just end up giving money to themselves; which is not charity. When<br />
our four daughters were teenagers you could be forgiven for thinking that<br />
they saw my bank account as a form of charity but I hardly think that<br />
counts.<br />
<br />
There are thousands of good causes in this country and they represent<br />
something of the DNA of this great nation. The money raised Sir Bob, Midge,<br />
and the Live Aid team changed real lives in foreign places and, in an<br />
almost unseen way, changed real hearts in this land. At a time where market<br />
forces were being seen as the great driver of everything, ordinary people<br />
made a small stand for something bigger than their own personal gain.<br />
<br />
If I could meet Sir Geldof I would want to thank him for two things;<br />
firstly that I can accompany my morning blues with few lines from ‘I don’t<br />
like Mondays’ and thus realise I am not alone. Secondly, for waking us up<br />
to the need in far off countries and to our collective ability to make a<br />
difference.Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-26955285110828388222011-08-24T10:30:00.000-07:002011-08-24T10:30:01.113-07:00The Limping SportsmanI entered this year with the good intention of talking regular exercise has been somewhat thwarted by some knee pain that I have been labelling as a sports injury. Mrs M seems intent on ridiculing this description by telling everyone that it happened in the local pub.<br />
<br />
In this she is correct but I still maintain that sport was directly involved in bringing on the pain I now feel.<br />
<br />
I was playing crib with two friends and my ninety-year old father in law whilst keeping one eye on the TV that was showing the other drinking regulars the selected game of football.<br />
<br />
Being a dutiful son-in-law I was determined to ensure my wife’s dad had a peaceful night, given he is a mere ten years off reaching his century, by making all the trips for ale on his behalf.<br />
<br />
As I rose from the table attempting one such trip I intended heading left towards the bar when the rest of our party made the ‘someone has nearly scored’ noise that football fans make in unison. Because the TV was on the opposite side of the room I instinctively tried to turn right to view the spectacle but had already put most of my weight in the other direction; thus twisting my knee and causing the said sports injury.<br />
<br />
Who knew a game of crib could be so dangerous?<br />
<br />
Not long after this incident I visited my father who is recovering well from a hip operation. I, of course, told him the full tale without pausing to allow Mrs M to express her opinion on such matters.<br />
<br />
My dad nodded his understanding with a smile and we walked toward lounge to continue our conversation about leg related pain. At this point my bride and my mother started to chuckle in the way that wives do when they have noticed some deficiency in their husbands world.<br />
<br />
‘You are both limping in the same way’ my mother exclaimed continuing to laugh at us in our hour of need.<br />
<br />
‘You could borrow your dad’s walking stick’ added Mrs M as if we weren’t already in enough pain.<br />
<br />
On our return to the Aire Valley I determined that this injury was not going to make me look like an old man before my time; well not in public at least.<br />
<br />
With this in my mind yesterday I agreed to walk the two miles to the office and determined not make any of the whining noises that had become part of my custom.<br />
<br />
What I didn’t account for when I made this decision was the fact that we live in one of the hilliest parts of the country. And it seems that when you have a sports related knee injury walking down hill is far harder than walking up hill.<br />
<br />
As we turned the last corner before arriving at our destination Mrs M tripped ever so slightly.<br />
<br />
‘Oops’ she said steadying herself by holding my arm ‘I don’t want to have a sports injury’<br />
<br />
‘You couldn’t use that term for it anyway’ I replied laying claim to the title.<br />
<br />
‘Fell walking is more of a sport than cribbage’ she replied, once again believing she had won the argument.<br />
<br />
I limped off in a sportsman like manner without saying a word,Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-2207367906969179282011-08-17T10:38:00.000-07:002011-08-17T10:38:00.931-07:00Mrs M is the Hot OneMrs M and I have been under the weather over the last seven days. I am tempted to call it flu but I have used the word too often to make it stick now. The fact that my bride shares the same symptoms allows me to let her make this call; after all she is the nurse in the family.<br />
<br />
In between regular doses of paracetamol, one of the spin-offs from being ill is that you have the pleasure, if I may use such a word, of watching daytime telly; much of which is rather banal.<br />
<br />
Perhaps that’s what you need when you can’t concentrate on anything more significant; TV that doesn’t stimulate too much.<br />
<br />
I had often heard it said that we Brits have an obsession with the weather but now I have had it confirmed by the fact that all of the news programmes have covered the snowfall from every conceivable angle.<br />
<br />
They usually start with a reporter stood near snowdrifts. I presume they feel this helps us viewers to realise how truly cold it is. We are then shown footage of abandoned cars and pensioners being helped from isolated buildings.<br />
<br />
Following information about how many roads are affected we are shown video clips of the many schools that have been closed across the region.<br />
<br />
They always seem to close the report with scenes of kids sledging so that we are not left feeling too depressed by our countries inability to deal with adverse weather conditions.<br />
<br />
Drivers of 4 x 4 vehicles have come out well in most of the reports. It appears that not only do they have cars that don’t struggle with snow but they are also extremely neighbourly.<br />
<br />
Mrs M and I have also received good support from friends and family during this winter illness; they have been more than willing to come to our aid by providing much needed food and supplies.<br />
<br />
I have managed to get the shop myself during moments when I have felt slightly better but have faced a significant challenge when it comes coping with being ill: in most shops I am only allowed to buy two packets of pain killers.<br />
<br />
Here is the main problem. We have two sick adults in the house who are fully committed to using painkillers in order to get through and yet I am forced to visit several shops in order to buy in a sufficient supply for our needs.<br />
<br />
When your main goal is to keep your temperature down it really matters that you have drugs available on demand. In fact we have an electronic thermometer and therefore can accurately monitor the effects of our malaise at regular intervals.<br />
<br />
Because of this I can confidently announce that for the first time in our thirty years together I am officially hotter than my wife.<br />
<br />
In order to deal with our painkiller shortages I have had to recruit several friends to visit local shops to in order to provide a regular supply. I am not sure that turning such good people into potential drug dealers is what they intended when they decided to limit how many packets each person could buy.<br />
<br />
Mrs M is keen that I receive my supply of pills so that she can remove me from my position as the hot one in our relationship.Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-68441260046452313502011-08-10T10:27:00.000-07:002011-08-10T10:27:00.657-07:00Hot ChilliIf asked my family will tell you I am a decent cook. In truth I have learnt to make a few meals well enough to fool everyone in to believing that I know what I am doing. Mrs M gave me the ultimate compliment a few days ago when she said that she generally prefers to eat my food than what we have when we eat out. I need to point out, however, that she only said this in response to the pressure I was giving her to make a decision about what she wanted from the menu at a local Indian restaurant. It seems that it is the quality of my food that has made it almost impossible for her to make a speedy decision.<br />
<br />
When it comes to choosing a curry my wife and I have different approaches. Mrs M goes for the relative safety of a fairly mild option, whereas I like a dish that will put up something of a fight. When the food arrives we do the husband and wife thing of trying each other’s dishes only to return to our own version of the perfect curry.<br />
<br />
I do tend to avoid the infamous Vindaloo these days normally stating the apocryphal story that it is not authentically Asian and was only made to placate the often drunk British punter, who wanted a hotter dish than was normally available, to feed his larger fuelled hunger. Whether or not Vindaloo means ‘the one with the potato’, said to have been used to distinguish it from other dishes, I no longer choose to eat it.<br />
<br />
In truth it is too hot for me these days and tends to bring on both an attack of perspiration and the threat of tears. Don’t think, however, that I have stopped liking spicy food altogether.<br />
<br />
At home I will occasionally make a chilli that contains fire and usually the family appreciate it in silence. It is one of those dishes that stops you worrying about the general pressures of life by firmly locating you in the moment.<br />
<br />
If it were not for the possibility of indigestion it would be perfect to get rid of one’s thoughts just before you go to sleep. Or perhaps it would work as breakfast in order to remove any potential worries for the day.<br />
<br />
It would certainly be better than the rabbit food that Mrs M usually makes me eat. I recently tried to protest about this produce by suggesting that now I am over fifty some of its contents are a little too hard for my teeth.<br />
<br />
Unfortunately my bride bought me some porridge as an alternative but this is even worse than the rabbit food. Firstly, it takes more effort than I am willing to expend on a breakfast that doesn’t contain bacon. Secondly, it is only a healthy option if you refrain from adding sugar or honey, or indeed anything else that would make it taste of anything palatable.<br />
<br />
On reflection the porridge does have something in common with my hot chilli; both them have the ability to distract you from the worries of the day. One by filling your mouth with fire; the other by filling your life with boredom and your mouth with wallpaper paste.Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-69267548076567077632011-08-03T10:32:00.000-07:002011-08-03T10:32:00.339-07:00The Whole Truth and Nothing But.....Perhaps I am growing cynical in my middle age but somehow I cannot watch the television news without wondering to myself whether we are being presented with the whole story.<br />
<br />
They seem to take a subject then present the most ludicrous extremes of the argument as if there are no other alternatives.<br />
<br />
Thank goodness we have hit Christmas time so that we can have the balance of the nativity story to keep our feet on the ground.<br />
<br />
Having said this it occurs to me that the same thought often came to mind when I used to watch our daughters performing as angels in the school version of the tale; this is not the whole story.<br />
<br />
If you were to remove from the tableau the various bits of tradition that have been added over the years and the copious amounts of tinsel, silver paper, runny noses, and tea towels, what would we be left with.<br />
<br />
Perhaps it would be a tale of enemy occupation, corrupt government, ethnic cleansing, and asylum seekers. All too familiar stories that seem to be often repeated on our news screens.<br />
<br />
I understand that primary school teachers would be hounded out of their classrooms if they were to invest time in such subjects at what has become the season to party and enjoy the excesses we have become used to.<br />
<br />
I feel sure, however, that we miss some of the subtlety of the scene. The promise that we are not left alone in our helplessness. The hope that one a day a child would be born who would bring about a different way of seeing the world. The reality that those in power don’t like such grass roots ideas. Even perhaps the possibility that there is some purpose in this corner of the universe!<br />
<br />
One thing is for certain in the tale that we have come to know as the nativity; it is not the whole story. The main characters all seem to be the wrong type of people for such a seemingly important event. They had ancestors who were murderers and prostitutes. They were from the wrong part of the country. Without any connections that would make them seem powerful. Perhaps there is hope for us all.<br />
<br />
One wonders how such a story would be covered by today’s television media. Would they interview the wise men about possible delays in travelling across borders during the holiday season? Or perhaps run a documentary series on the corruption in corridors of local government.<br />
<br />
They would probably try to find a quirky angle from which to view the whole thing. Perhaps it would be the various uses of camel dung or the problems of finding hotel accommodation at the time of a census.<br />
<br />
One thing is for sure; it would not be the whole story.<br />
<br />
Thank goodness we have discovered the true meaning of Christmas today. Nigella Lawson’s recipe for goose-fat roast potatoes. The infamous cola advert. The office party. The vast amounts of money spent on presents.<br />
<br />
And enough alcohol to cover up any thoughts of ethnic cleansing or a supposed visit from a deity in the form of a baby. Perhaps the newscasters have understood us well; after all we don’t really like the whole story.Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-68852170953058016702011-07-27T10:35:00.000-07:002011-07-27T10:35:00.870-07:00Heroes NeededNo sooner had the winner of the X Factor been announced a few months ago than I saw a Twitter message by Steve Brookstein. ‘Who?’ you well may ask.<br />
<br />
Steve won the competition six years ago and now, according to his recent message, was singing to twenty people in a coffee shop.<br />
<br />
So as Matt Cardle sets off towards gaining his almost certain Christmas number one record spare a thought for all the forgotten winners whose dreams have been turned in to….well perhaps not nightmares, but you know what I mean!<br />
<br />
Just think about other winners and runners-up; Andy Abraham, G4, Ray Quinn, Leon Jackson, and Rhydian Roberts. The memories are rushing back in.<br />
<br />
In truth I remember very little about any of them.<br />
<br />
Will the same fate be handed out to the latest winner Matt or will he gain international stardom along with the likes of Leona Lewis.<br />
<br />
Just prior to the winner being announced we celebrated the 49th wedding anniversary of some very dear friends of ours. This quiet meal for a dozen friends could well have gone unnoticed by the other customers of the restaurants and yet for those involved it was a special occasion. Our happy couple are at an age where they too must go unnoticed by most of society. We tend to do this with age as if those with the most experience of life have nothing to offer the rest of us less experienced travellers.<br />
<br />
The gentleman of our couple was one of the Ambulance heroes of the Bradford City fire all of those years ago. He doesn’t talk about it too freely but every now and then, when pressed, will tell a little of the trauma of that day and how so many people worked tirelessly to rescue those in greatest need.<br />
<br />
Our time at the restaurant celebrating this precious couple seemed somewhat at odds with the celebrity culture honoured by programmes such as the X Factor.<br />
<br />
Our ambulance hero has never sought the limelight as for many years he served his beloved Yorkshire, yet on one fateful Saturday in May his daily job became linked with the stuff of headlines.<br />
<br />
The rest of who looked on back in 1985, hoping that our loved ones were not caught up in the blaze, will always remember the bravery of those who came to the rescue. Yet we do so without knowing their names for this is not the same remembering that is demanded by the celebrity culture. It is more important than that.<br />
<br />
So as Steve Brookstein becomes a casualty of Simon Cowell’s fame machine its hard to have too much sympathy. He knew what he was getting in to and he must have known that it wasn’t really about music; it never is.<br />
<br />
And as Matt Cardle’s new song hits the airwaves this Christmas lets take the time to remember some of the heroes in our locality who are all too easily forgotten.<br />
<br />
I wonder what incredible stories we might uncover as we do. Perhaps there are other heroes of the Bradford fire who deserve the chance to be honoured by simply taking the time to listen to their stories. They had the X factor back then and, as we have found out with our dear friends, they still have the X factor now; it just isn’t about singing.<br />
<br />
Come to think of it neither is the Simon Cowell version.Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-49069470854078665422011-07-20T10:44:00.000-07:002011-07-20T10:44:00.863-07:00Middle Class CommonerIt's not very often these days I am made to feel aware of my social <br />
class. This could be due to the general lack of awareness I have as to <br />
my surroundings or it may be that life has changed so much that such <br />
things no longer have any meaning.<p>There is, of course, the odd time that I drop an aitches in polite <br />
conversation and find someone wanting to correct me. And every now and <br />
then someone might make a comment about their school and I am distinctly <br />
reminded that the variety I attended was the second class modern type.<p>It was as if they were training us to be working class. The careers <br />
teacher actually laughed at me when I informed him that I wanted to <br />
become a maths teacher. Instead he sent me off for an interview at a <br />
local engineering works. I didn't get the job partly because he sent <br />
every other boy to the same interview. The guy who took the interview <br />
sounded decidedly middle class not that I was really aware of what <br />
difference it made.<p>Now, as the newsreels have been resounding with the news of a royal <br />
wedding, we are informed that the future royal, Kate Middleton, is in <br />
fact middle class.<p>This may not come as a surprise other than the fact that her parents <br />
are millionaires. Herein lies the problem; how do we decide what counts <br />
as lower, middle, or upper class in an age of egalitarian aspiration.<p>I was born to working class parents in suburb or a northern town. I <br />
never considered myself to be anything other than working class and yet <br />
several decades later I became a manager in a large company. Perhaps <br />
during this time my staff would have considered me a traitor to by roots <br />
but somehow I felt just the same as I had did all those years ago.<p>So what is it that determines ones class? Your parents, your job, your <br />
wealth, your accent, your postcode, your attitude, or the school you <br />
attended.<p>Whatever it is I am sure that our newest royal has no control over it. <br />
Either the media, or the Great British public, or both will decide and <br />
pass judgement accordingly. One report not only described her as middle <br />
class but also a commoner.<p>I was intrigued to find that on hearing the engagement announcement <br />
that one TV news company commissioned a poll to discover what the rest <br />
of us commoners thought about it. It informed us that 62% of us had no <br />
opinion what so ever.<p>Perhaps that is the real test of whether you are a commoner; you don't <br />
have a significant opinion on the royalty or who they should marry.<p>The poll did reveal that men out number women when it comes to such <br />
apathy. My wife often tells me that my behaviour is a little common. <br />
This could explain why I didn't get the engineering job; or indeed <br />
become a maths teacher.<p>I take it that Her Royal Highness the Queen approves of William's <br />
choice of bride despite her more humble status, so that should be good <br />
enough.<p>In that respect she has a lot in common with Mrs M, who informs me that <br />
she wouldn't have protested had one of our girls decided to marry a <br />
prince. She is definitely not a commoner.Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-40415427748324813562011-07-13T12:43:00.000-07:002011-07-13T12:43:01.580-07:00Good CompanionsWe had the pleasure of recently attending a performance at Bingley Little Theatre. I am sad to say that since we moved here in 2005 we have not paid a visit until now. <br />
<br />
We were invited by our dear friend Doris along with a bunch of other friends.<br />
<br />
I have to confess that it is the best part of two decades since I attended an am-dram production and so I had to become quickly accustomed to the feel of watching a live performance during which you can’t do many of the things you have become used to at home.<br />
<br />
You know what I mean; arguing about who is going to put the kettle on, shouting at the TV when Simon Cowell destroys another one of the hopeless contestants on The X Factor, or pausing the programme whilst you nip to the loo.<br />
<br />
Such behaviour is not allowed in the theatre it seems after all you can hardly ask the performance to wait a moment whilst you run to the toilet.<br />
<br />
This being said Mrs M and I joined the other ‘theatre-goers’ (for that is what we now were) and took our seats to watch JB Priestly’s Good Companions. <br />
<br />
It was the most enjoyable evening and I judged it as a triumph for a number of reasons; Firstly, within the first couple of minutes I had stopped seeing the performers as actors and believed them to be their characters. Secondly, the time went by so very quickly.<br />
<br />
It was a great performance and an enjoyable experience; one which I hope to repeat again soon. I am slightly surprised that it has taken me so long to get there given the fact that I really enjoy community events, however large or small they may be.<br />
<br />
It is tempting to think that only the larger well attended events can be considered as successful. Yet our towns and villages are filled with programmes that could be considered as insignificant to the rest of the world. In fact these moments act as the glue that holds our communities together.<br />
<br />
Not too long ago I had the pleasure of celebrating the ninetieth anniversary of the Royal British Legion.<br />
<br />
The Legion had organised an event in our local town centre to remember the great work that this organisation has done over the years.<br />
<br />
It was a typical small town, British event. I say this not as a compliment. It had bands, and stalls, and food, and drink, and entertainment. Given that it was held in this country it also had rain.<br />
<br />
Perhaps the organisers would have felt a little downhearted at the weather but the event was a success in so many other ways. They had managed to bring the community together and celebrated their excellent organisation’s anniversary.<br />
<br />
Both occasions display what is best about our community; real people using their skills to provide a place for people to connect. For me this was a great antidote to the world view propagated by shows like the X-Factor.<br />
<br />
I for one was glad to have attended both the play and the anniversary celebration. We made new friends at the Royal British Legion and we attended Good Companions with our own good companions.Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-25025145862053309332011-07-09T10:00:00.000-07:002011-07-09T10:00:00.226-07:00The Paperless OfficeMy dream of a paperless office has almost completely disappeared after we acquired two printers for our spare bed room. This room is multifunctional in that it houses the bed settee so that we can welcome guests, the collection of books that my wife and I have threatened to read should we get a moment, and our home office equipment.<br />
<br />
I didn’t set out to have two printers; the first of our collection failed to disperse ink on the A4 paper and had to be sent away for repair. Not unreasonably I considered life without creating my own documents to be hardly worth living so I bought another to see me through the waiting period.<br />
<br />
The original being satisfactorily repaired we now own two. It seems to me that this might not be a bad situation for a house full of daughters.<br />
<br />
My wife and I are constantly refereeing arguments about the use of ‘the’ hairbrush. The fact that we have only one is a complete amazement to me as I have bought many over the years thinking I was bringing peace to the Molineaux household.<br />
<br />
The use of computer associated equipment has also been a source of conflict over the years therefore perhaps the ownership of two printers will prove effective in sister to sister relations.<br />
<br />
We already have a good collection of mobile phones between us; the irony here is that whenever I try to call them I never seem to get a reply. Such is life.<br />
<br />
I am concerned, however, that my collection of duplicates is growing. A few months ago I bought a laminator to assist in adding protection to all those important documents that we produce on our two printers; things like….. well it doesn’t matter. All you need to know is that they are important.<br />
<br />
This purchase was made a few weeks before we moved house so I didn’t get round to opening the box never mind using the equipment. Much to my daughters amusement my father-in-law insists on calling it a marinator,<br />
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A couple of weeks after our flit I decided that I needed to cover an A4 sheet in plastic so I went on a hunt for the required item. It was not to be found and I spent several moments mourning its loss.<br />
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Even though my need for its services was crucial to the running of the household it was not until several weeks later that I bought a replacement for our lost equipment.<br />
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Needless to say I found the lost laminator the very next day and now we have two!<br />
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I wonder whether this duplication will also stave off arguments between the siblings. They can now print and laminate in tandem.<br />
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I just now need to buy another hairbrush.Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-63599644886641492092011-07-05T00:25:00.001-07:002011-07-05T00:25:53.948-07:00Sister ActI heard this week that a Spanish nun has been sacked from her religious order for spending too long on the social networking site Facebook. It seems that 54 year old Sister Maria, who had been in the organisation for 35 years, was enjoying making friends from all around the world; six hundred in total.<br />
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It is hard to resist imagining it was like a scene from The Sound of Music, where the more senior nuns break out in to song with a melancholic rendition of ‘How do you solve a problem like Maria’.<br />
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Sister Internet, as she was known by the other residents of the convent, now lives with her mother and plans to visit some of the places she has become acquainted with whilst surfing the net.<br />
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It probably shouldn’t surprise us that computers have become so popular with such a wide variety of people. Our dear friend Mel, who is several years into his retirement, has joined the growing band of Silver Surfers.<br />
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Mel was an ambulance driver for most of his working life and has seen many changes over his lifetime. He tells me that when he first started in the service they still had ambulances with mechanical bells fitted.<br />
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The speed of change in technology is breathtaking and one wonders where the next century will take the human race.<br />
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Consider for a moment that there was a mere 84 years gap between Karl Benz offering the first commercially available car in 1885 and Neil Armstrong’s giant leap for mankind as he landed on the moon in 1969.<br />
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Back then, when Sister Maria would have been more likely singing ‘I am thirteen going on fourteen’ she must have been aware of the moon landing would probably not have understood its significance. Teenagers would have been more interested in pop music rather than lunar landings.<br />
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The compact cassette had only just arrived on the mass market and so most of our music was still on vinyl. My own teenage record collection took up three LP cases and several boxes for singles. I guess that would have been around 1500 tracks and would have filled the boot of a small car.<br />
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Today I have a mobile phone that can hold twice as many songs and fits into my jeans pocket. Oh the speed of change!<br />
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I was discussing the development of mobile phones with my daughters just a few ago and they were amazed to hear that back in the sixties my parents had our first phone fitted in the house. It was what was known as a party line. This was a way of having a more affordable phone line by sharing it with someone else in the village.<br />
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Before being able to make a call we had to check that the other ‘party’ was not speaking to someone. This all seems so very old fashioned now.<br />
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Although I look back with fondness on these times I would not swap any of our modern gadgets that have come to enhance our lives: mobile phone, dishwasher, computer, internet, satnav, George Foreman Grill, not to mention the advances in medical science.<br />
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To quote another song from the Sound of Music ‘These are a few of my favourite things’.Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-31337812371495209952010-08-14T01:27:00.001-07:002010-08-14T01:27:35.843-07:00Football Down The PubI have been looking at the computer screen trying to think of something to<br />write about that doesn’t include South Africa or football. Well I cant!<br />Mainly because, like a good number of other middle aged men, I have become<br />nine years old again.<br /><br />I have kept the World Cup planner from the newspaper. I have bought an<br />England flag, an England air freshener, and a red and white hat.<br /><br />I even spent a whole evening putting the fixtures into the calendar on my<br />iPhone even though I had previously bought an app (phone programme)<br />containing the full details.<br /><br />To many of you, including Mrs M, this will all sound a little sad. In fact<br />my wife is under the impression that I might have World Cup Tourettes<br />because every now and then I get the urge to shout ‘Come on England’.<br /><br />I know that I am not alone in this; every where I go I see grown men<br />gazing at newspapers and magazines containing details of the happenings<br />taking place on the African continent.<br /><br />I spoke to an old school friend today and within seconds our conversation<br />became focussed on this, our favourite subject. My old pal is a Manchester<br />City fan whilst I support the team in red. This did not matter, however, as<br />we became joined as fellow supporters of our national team.<br /><br />I mentioned Mrs M’s view that I might have World Cup Tourettes and he<br />chuckled as he told me about his need to sing the England football song<br />Three Lions at the top of his voice whilst alone in his car.<br /><br />My wife said this confirmed her theory that the only difference between<br />men and cheese is that eventually the latter matures. I detected a little<br />too much sarcasm than I thought was necessary.<br /><br />I enquired as to whether she was in any way excited about the competition.<br />‘A little she replied’ doing a mock Mexican wave as she sat on the sofa.<br /><br />No matter, I continued with my pre-tournament preparations which included<br />ensuring that every TV in the house had good reception just in case we get<br />a failure, and fitting the flag to my otherwise unpatriotic car.<br /><br />Mrs M, in a bid to manage my expectations, suggested that I book in for<br />some therapy should they not make it past the first round.<br /><br />‘Therapy?’ I replied ‘I will form a whole support group should that<br />happen’.<br /><br />‘And where would you hold these sessions’ enquired my bride.<br /><br />‘Down the pub’ I replied.<br /><br />My wife did a second mock Mexican wave and I am sure I heard her say ‘Come<br />on England’ as she left the room.<br /><br />World Cup Tourettes must be catching.<br /><br /><br />- Posted from my iPhone<br />Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-74905673374646190202010-07-02T10:26:00.001-07:002010-07-02T10:26:15.937-07:00Britain's Traditional InstrumentMy World Cup tourettes has fast disappeared and been replaced by a self-help mantra.<br /><br />I had spent the last few weeks randomly shouting 'come on England' at the sight of a St George's flag but now the nine year-old boy inside this middle-aged man has grown quiet and ever so slightly melancolic.<br /><br />I have replaced my football chant with the one my wife regularly used in the lead up to the competition. Trying to convey that she didn't know what all the fuss was about she would offer 'it's only game'.<br /><br />Before England's demise I would take the time to explain why she was mistaken in her view. Now it seems to offer only the slightest amount of comfort.<br /><br />Mrs M, in an attempt at soothing my disappointment, removed all the England flags from the car whilst I was otherwise distracted.<br /><br />It was a caring thing to do but the car, once proud, patriotic, and positive, now looked sad and ordinary.<br /><br />It seems we were not alone in wanting to remove any reminders of our defeat. The streets around our home, which were once a proud mass of red and white, are all now as plain as my old car.<br /><br />We have just started a few days away at a holiday camp in Norfolk and I am hopeful that this will restore my otherwise positive attitude.<br /><br />On arrival I became quickly aware that there were no St George's flags to be seen. I presume that the the holiday camp managers followed my wife's lead in hiding anything that might disappoint.<br /><br />My hope now is that I might meet some French or Italian supporters: I will feel it is my duty to encourage them by offering the reminder that 'it's only a game'. We are fellow Europeans.<br /><br />If I come across some Germans (not sure of it counts as Europe) I will feel the need to be magnanamous in defeat. Even if Lampard's goal had been allowed we still looked second rate compared with their skill.<br /><br />For now I will pick up my vuvuzela and shout 'Come on Ghana!'<br /><br />The instrument, that made every game sound like it was being played inside a hornets nest, was allowed because it is said to be a traditional instrument.<br /><br />If we ever host the World Cup in this great nation we should employ our traditional<br />instruments and turn up at the stadium with a pair of spoons or a paper and comb. That would show 'em!<br /><br />And if they complained about the noise we could remind them that 'it's only a game'.Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-38536435565009165862010-06-23T01:26:00.001-07:002010-06-23T01:26:06.959-07:00England - Glee or Porgy & BessMrs M seems to be having withdrawal symptoms from the remote control. This object, once so regularly used to flick between various episodes of Next Top Model, has hardly left my side during the World Cup. <br /><br />Realising her pain at such a loss I suggested she chose something good for us to watch whilst a less important match was on last night. <br /><br />To my horror her remote controlling finger stopped pressing when we arrived at the latest American import known as Glee. <br /><br />I had seen the odd trailer for the show so knew that it might be the type that I wouldn't fully appreciate. Nothing, however, could have prepared my for what I was about to witness. <br /><br />For those who haven't seen it let me explain. It is set in a stateside high school and uses all the usual reference points to carry the story. Their are jocks and geeks and other groupings of American teens showing an unhealthy amount of disrespect for one another. <br /><br />This series has a twist, however, in that it takes one such group and draws them together around their passion for performing arts, making them more Gleeks than Geeks. <br /><br />This is where the show takes a turn for the worse as we are subjected to cheesy song after cheesy song set in a storyline that adds further helpings of savoury dairy products. <br /><br />For this middle aged nothern male it represented sheer pain. <br /><br />When I was at school the only musical we came near to performing was Porgy and Bess. That was because we had a substitute drama teacher for one term. She was full of enthusiasm and convinced that the boys in the class should experience the joy of singing in front of other people. <br /><br />In truth, most of us were secretly drawn to the idea but we had to maintain our usual air of disdain for fear of being ridiculled. <br /><br />Cast in the lead roll I was required to sing 'nobody knows the trouble I'm in' using my best deep south accent. <br /><br />I didn't have such an accent and the teacher kept asking me to make it sound less like a football chant. <br /><br />The following term our substitute teacher had disappeared along with my embarrasment at having to sing in front of the class. <br /><br />Perhaps this is why I revile at the sight of these over enthusiastic American teenagers turning every mundane incident into a song. <br /><br />I mentioned to Mrs M, in passing, that I preferred the football and she sang, with full musical actions, the main song from Glee as she went to make a brew.<br /><br />'Don't stop believing'<br /><br />'You might need that song when you watch the England match tomorrow' she said with a smile.<br /><br />As long as I don't end up singing 'nobody knows the trouble I'm in' I replied hoping that my footballing dreams won't be shattered. Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-33573026831822457982010-05-26T15:18:00.001-07:002010-05-26T15:18:56.484-07:00Cultured or Second ClassI have been trying to get a bit of culture in my fairly ordinary life.<br />This sounds like it should be a relatively easy exercise if it weren’t for<br />the fact that I am a full northern male with, what was rather<br />discouragingly called, a secondary education.<br /><br />Perhaps this title isn’t meant to imply a sub-standard academic<br />environment; however the address given by our deputy head master at our<br />opening assembly certainly did.<br /><br />We sat before him as a group of gangly eleven and twelve year olds looking<br />for the kind of pedagogic inspiration we have become accustomed to in our<br />primary schools.<br /><br />‘At an establishment down the road’ he began, referring to the local<br />grammar school. ‘They are being trained to be the cream of society’ he<br />continued as if imparting wisdom. ‘I want you to know, however, that you<br />are not second class’.<br /><br />Until that assembly I had never considered that I was, being glad to<br />attend a school that played both football and rugby.<br /><br />Now, as I approach fifty, I consider it is never too late to become<br />cultured. So as I waited for Mrs M to finish her nursing shift last week I<br />listened to Pavarotti’s performance of Nessun Dorma.<br /><br />At the same time I surfed the Internet to find the words. This didn’t<br />completely prove fruitful, as I didn’t learn Italian at my secondary<br />school.<br /><br />Fortunately the World Wide Web is not limited by my lack of education and<br />provided me with an English translation.<br /><br />It turns out that Puccini was an old romantic and the song contains a very<br />moving lyric.<br /><br />My computer didn’t stop there in trying to bring me culture. It seems that<br />those who know about such things are very passionate about naming their<br />favourite performer of this operatic masterpiece.<br /><br />It seems that Britain’s Got Talent contestant Paul Potts doesn’t please<br />the opera going public of these fair isles.<br /><br />When my bride finally arrived home I shared my newfound knowledge with her<br />and insisted that we did our own comparison by listening to several<br />singers<br />one after another.<br /><br />Mrs M wasn’t immediately keen on the idea but soon came round and so we<br />listened, and we listened, and we listened.<br /><br />After hearing nine tenors I had two conclusions; Firstly, Pavarotti was a<br />genius. His performance stood out above the rest. Secondly, my education<br />was, to some degree, secondary because our deputy head master never told<br />us<br />about the brilliance of Nessun Dorma during any of his assemblies.Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-68147341650002938252010-05-21T15:26:00.001-07:002010-05-21T15:26:25.918-07:00Nothing to wearWe are heading off to a conference this week and we have had our usual 'I haven't got anything to wear' conversation.<br /> <br />I don't want to sound unsympathetic but I approach the issue with a completely different perspective than my dear Mrs M.<br /> <br />We entered this dialogue immediately after an in-depth assessment of my wardrobe methodology. Apparently my bride doesn't feel that my system gives full honour to the hard work she has put into the ironing.<br /> <br />I foolishly asked her to explain her comments and so we stood in front of my proud collection of shirts and pants whilst my wife explained how I wasn't making good use of the available space.<br /> <br />I tried to seem interested but I couldn't help feeling that I was letting down all male members of the human race by spending too much time looking at cloth. I mistakenly said this thought out loud and was informed that I was as old fashioned as the corduroy jeans that have mocked me for the last five years. I bought them just after they changed the sizing system to make Medium the new Large.<br /> <br />Anyway, faster than a speeding knitting needle, my wife rearranged my clothes into an order that made her sigh with satisfaction.<br /> <br />'There you are!' she exclaimed.<br /> <br />In deed, there I was; my garments were now gathered in order of smartness and colour. My best shirts were neatly lines to the right and my comfortable, if slightly scruffy, T-shirts were waiting for me on the left.<br /> <br />Granted, it had a certain aesthetic appeal but I wasn't convinced that it offered me anything of any use.<br /> <br />Therein lies the difference between my bride and I; the question I ask when looking for clothes is 'are they fit for purpose?' Not so Mrs M who assures me that she looks at the bigger picture.<br /> <br />I realise at times like this that it is pointless arguing so I agreed to so order my wardrobe knowing too well that I would forget the next time I come to hang up the nicely ironed clothes.<br /> <br />I asked Mrs M why none of her many clothes would suit our upcoming conference. I didn't word it like this of course; that would imply a certain amount of sarcasm.<br /> <br />At this point she gave me lots of information that seemed, in her world at least, to sound rational. All I remember was that the black trousers weren't the right kind of black and that most of her outfits would be no use if the weather turned warmer.<br /> <br />After nodding my sympathetic agreement I put my shirts and trousers in the case; never once did I question their colour or suitability for warm weather.Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234423343937659301.post-76207885746795821812010-05-13T03:17:00.001-07:002010-05-13T03:17:29.708-07:00Barbecues: Pretending to be Australian but without the weather.We have just watched a promotional advert for the football World Cup that is about to descend upon us. At the same as I cheered my wife gave a little sigh!<br /><br />It seems that Mrs M is less than keen on the idea of four-weeks of solid football. I suggested that we could give the England matches a party feel by having a barbecue at the same time<br />Meat, beer, and football. Excellent!<br /><br />My bride looked to the heavens, as if for help, and asked me whether I would prefer to watch most of the matches in the local pub.<br /><br />'Really!' I said trying not to look too excited.<br /><br />'I'd like you to enjoy it' she said presenting the idea as if she was being kind.<br /><br />Twenty-nine years of married life tell me that this is not so and that my bride, is in fact, trying to make the house a soccer free zone during competition.<br /><br />I asked her whether we could still have a few barbecues and she reminded me that she has never been fond of this outdoor eating experience.<br /><br />Disappointed about her lack of enthusiasm for both football and barbecues I asked her what she found so off putting. Here are the thoughts of Mrs M.<br /><br />Beef burgers - Why would they take perfectly good steak and mince it up only to put it back again as a pretend piece of steak unless they are trying to hide something.<br /><br />Cooking outside - It's like pretending to be Australian but without the weather.<br /><br />The World Cup - I can cope with football but not when they are trying to steal our summer.<br /><br />Needless to say, I don't agree with my bride on any of the points she makes above.<br /> <br />Beef burgers are a perfectly convenient way of hiding the bits of meat that you wouldn't otherwise consider consuming. I would call this being thrifty.<br /> <br />Barbecues are a great way of us Brits expressing our eternal optimism in spite of consistent bad weather. Up and down the land you will see families huddled under makeshift gazebos whilst dad cremates pig meat protected from the rain by an umbrella. We wont be beaten.<br /> <br />As for the World Cup; it is a great way of practicing for the result of our general elections. For four years we have all followed our own favoured team; but now we form a coalition in order to support our national side. In the case of my two son-in-laws and me it will be a Spurs-Man pact.<br /> <br />In this new alliance there is no room for people who don't like beefburgers and all our cabinet meetings will be done, in the cold, around a barbecue.Molineauxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17889454294950917556noreply@blogger.com0